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Will You Have To Sell Your Home During A Divorce? 

Whether or not you will be forced to sell your home during a divorce depends upon several factors.
 
If the property is considered a martial asset-meaning it was acquired during the marriage, it is usually subject to equitable distribution, depending on which state you live in.
 
You may want to buy out your husband's share of the equity in the home during your divorce settlement. Or you may chose to sell the home and share the profits. There are some creative ways to handle the division of your home that you can incorporate into your divorce settlement. If you have small children, you could request that the sale of the home is delayed until your youngest child turns 18 years old. At that point, the home would be sold and the profits would be split between you and your ex husband.

There are several things you need to consider with this arrangement. If you are paying the monthly mortgage, taxes and expenses for the home, then those monies should be deducted from your ex's share at the closing. You may also want to have the home appraised and set the amount of equity to be shared at what your house is worth at the time of your divorce. The home will probably be worth much more years later. Your ex would have to agree to this arrangement and be willing to wait for his share of the equity.

Another option is to waive alimony from your ex-husband if you are entitled to it. You then ask for his share of the equity in the martial home in the divorce settlement. If there is enough equity on his part to cover what you would have received in alimony,you can save thousands of dollars in taxes. Alimony is considered taxable income. The equity in your home is exempt up to $250,000 for a single person who has resided in the home as her primary place of residence for two or more years.

Thinking about selling your home during a divorce can be emotionally draining and can negatively affect your children should you have to move. Think over all options, consult with your divorce attorney and an accountant before agreeing to any division of property in your divorce settlement.
by Christina-Rowe  298 Posts 

Posted on 10/11/2007 6:47 PM
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My husband and I are planning on divorcing but haven't filed yet and are living under the same roof as a result of the housing market. I would like to get an appraisal now and buy him out but qualifying for a loan is next to impossible these days especially considering the fact that I just launched a new business one year ago. I operate my business from a home office and therefore really want to keep the house. Since we don't want to sell the house in this horrible market, is there a way to go ahead and file for divorce and agree to sell the house at a later date? We don't have any children allowing me to ask for a delay? I'm also contemplating trying to prepare and file the divorce on my own, without an attorney, to try and save the considerable attorney fees (even in a simple divorce) and am wondering if, considering the issue of the house, I would be hurting myself in the long run.

 
by Charlotte21   1 Post
Posted on 2/25/2009 3:07 PM
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We bought the house during our marriage and after I left, I was ordered to continue making payments on the mortgage.  I cant afford to live and make these payments. Im willing to give her my half of the equity in return for no more mortgage and no alimony.  She wants the house but doesnt want to pay the mortgage.  In virginia, whats my best option??
by linz   3 Posts
Posted on 11/25/2008 12:26 PM
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The article is gender biased the way it is written. There are men on this site as well. I moved out of the home we own and I'm still paying the mortage and equity line ................
by kimconn22000   33 Posts
Posted on 11/12/2008 3:59 PM
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im in the same situation , im going thru a separation right now and my husbands attorney has stated that my husband will pay mortgage til jan 09 after that i have to move out even if the house is not sold im trying find out my rights here in north carolina. i do know he cant sell it without my signature
by jazzlblue   26 Posts
Posted on 9/24/2008 8:33 AM
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Because my ex no longer cohabitats but appears on the house title, I have been refused a homestead exemption. The home is lien free and was awarded to me by the court. What must I do in Texas to reinstate my exemption. Thanks in advance.
by rd1550   3 Posts
Posted on 8/28/2008 10:34 PM
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Christina Rowe,

What makes you an authority on the subject? I would like to stay in our home until I am in a better financial state. We have been late on our mortgage payments every other month at least for 2 years and I have just recently took a position at my children school. So, I need 12 months of on time payments and a better work history before  we sell our home. Does that make sense? I have mentioned it to him that we should work together to make the payments on time for the next 6 months before we put it on the market and hopefully we will have it on the market another 6 months. The way the market is right now it probably would take that long to sell anyways.

I do not want to stay here if and when we divorce or even if we were to reconcile our marriage, but I do need sometime to build my career and finances to where it will need to be to either buy or rent something comparable to where I am now. 

I have friends that say no judge would ever make me sale this house because of the age of our children and my financial state. 

Questions, advice. Thanks
by designgal   6 Posts
Posted on 6/20/2008 9:14 AM
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me and my wife seperated 3 years ago i lived somewhere elce i gave her money for the mortgage she didn't pay it for 7 months and let the house go in to forclosure about 7,000 dollers cause she didn't want me to get it than she took the money and bought a moterhome and left the state me and my girlfriend got it out of forclosure but here name is still on the loan how can we get here off please help.
by marymary   5 Posts
Posted on 4/19/2008 9:29 PM
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I am a Realtor, Broker/Associate in New Jersey.  If you tell me what state you are in I may be able to look into your rights for you.
by LeeLee   6 Posts
Posted on 2/27/2008 3:22 PM
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he had the house prior to marriage. don't i have dower rights? he refinanced and cashed out equity without my knowledge. isn't there something i shoud have signed?
by dana01   3 Posts
Posted on 12/30/2007 7:46 AM
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he had the house prior to marriage. don't i have dower rights? he refinanced and cashed out equity without my knowledge. isn't there something i shoud have signed?
by dana01   3 Posts
Posted on 12/30/2007 7:46 AM
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I'm going thru this so,If the house that we live in is bought while we are married even if it's not in my name there still is a way i can get the house if don't get alimony?
by jamie   3 Posts
Posted on 12/15/2007 8:19 PM
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