When a common law married couple relocates to a state that does not inherently recognize common law marriage for its residents, they enter treacherous and muddy waters should they choose to terminate their relationship. Perhaps no area of family law varies as much from one state to the next.
When a common law marriage recognized in one state comes apart in another, it is wise to seek expert legal advise to determine how alimony and/or alternative financial relief may be applied, if at all.
The office for Colorado Attorney General John W. Suthers writes: "A common law marriage in Colorado is valid for all purposes, the same as a ceremonial marriage. It can be terminated only by death or divorce." In Colorado, the common law elements of a valid marriage include: They can legally marry if they want, they tell others they're married and others think of them as married.
Ten states and the District of Columbia recognize common law marriages. Five other states recognize common law marriages established before a cut off date with two other states only recognizing it for specific legal issues.
Brian McFadden-DiNicola, an attorney with
Gomperts & Braun, in Springfield, N.J., noted that common law marriage is not recognized in New Jersey "unless the parties were in a common law marriage prior to1939. Our state Supreme Court ruled in 1955 that 'all marriages entered into after Dec. 1, 1939, without full compliance with the statute, to be absolutely void…"
However, many states adhere to the full faith and credit rule of the U.S. Constitution that allows for the recognition of a marriage under the laws of another state as explained by
Kelly Chang Rickert, a family law attorney in Los Angeles. "Although California does not recognize common law marriage in its state, if you were previously 'married' through common law in another state and later move to California, California will recognize your previous marriage."
"You must establish that your state acknowledges common law marriage, and produce a valid marriage certificate." Chang Rickert said. "Basically, if the other party challenges the divorce, you may have to make a motion for a separate hearing for the judgeto determine whether there was a valid marriage in another state. Once this has been adjudged, the matter will continue as a regular divorce."
Chang Rickert added, "There must be an evidentiary hearing which involves hearing testimony, showing documents, prior to the actual dissolution of a marriage case." Factors taken into account to substantiate a common law marriage from another state in a state not recognizing common law marriages within its borders can include:
• Tax returns filed jointly as married
• Shared financial accounts such as loans, credit cards, and bank accounts
• Affidavits from residents of the common law state attesting to the couple as representing themselves asbeing married
• Documentation of showing the wife taking the last name of the husband
• Cohabitation agreement
A common law marriage will generally be held "to be avalid marriage in a non common law state if the parties met the requirements of the common law marriage state. The burden is going to be on the person who wants to assert that there was a common lawmarriage in place." explained Goldie Schon, an attorney at
Nachshin & Weston of Los Angeles.
Contrarily, in New Jersey, the view of alimony falls outside the parameters of family law, according to McFadden-DiNicola. "Prepare yourself for some difficult hurdles based on the case law. You are going to have to bring either a palimony claim or a claim for quasi-contractual relief, meaning you are going to have to ask the court to provide you with equitable relief based on contract principles, not on statutory principles of equitable distribution, alimony, etc."
There is, depending upon the state, another remedy noted Chang Rickert, "Although California does not recognize common law marriage for purposes of awarding spousal support, there is a creature called palimony,which is support awarded on the basis of a contract. Palimony is not an issue of family law but rather contractual law, and unlike alimony being paid monthly, it is awarded as a lump sum in a civil judgment."
