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The Political Side of Divorce


The Political Side of Divorce


Breaking Up Is Part of the Fabric of American History, Experts Say


By VICTOR GRETO

    From the nation's first political breakup in 1776 to gossip about the personal lives of some of the 2008 presidential candidates, divorce is part of the fabric of American history.

Consider presidential candidate and former New York Mayor Rudy Giuliani, whose 2003 marriage to pharmaceutical sales manager Judith Nathan is still stirring up news. Though they've shied away from the discussion, questions about their relationship -- and when it began -- have plagued his campaign. His children from his second marriage to TV personality Donna Hanover aren't even backing their father's presidential efforts. His daughter recently took down her page on a social networking site backing presidential opponent Barak Obama.


But it's not Giuliani's two divorces -- including one from first wife and second cousin Regina Peruggi -- that may cost him votes. A 2007 poll conducted by the Pew Research Center for the People and the Press, nearly 9 of 10 potential voters said a divorce made no difference to them. "…It's safe to say that divorce is no longer a major factor in presidential politics," said Joe Pika, a political science professor at the University of Delaware.

The poll suggested, however, that voters would be swayed if a presidential candidate cheated on a spouse -- an allegation Giuliani has faced several times in his personal life. About 56 percent said a candidate's adultery would make a difference when they voted.

The poll results may be helpful to other political candidates with a personal history of divorce like potential candidate and former House Speaker Newt Gingrich, who also is twice divorced and three times married. Not to mention candidate Sen. John McCain and actor-turned-politician Fred Thompson, who have divorced and remarried as well.


HISTORY OF DIVORCE
Given the statistics, it's a wonder divorce wasn't a presidential issue long ago. Well, it was. "It was a major problem for Nelson Rockefeller in 1964, though not his only problem," Pika said. Rockefeller was a moderate Republican, and the nomination was controlled by conservatives, who pushed for fellow conservative Barry Goldwater. "But one of the major problems Rockefeller had been his recent, very public divorce," Pika said.

Although the National Center for Health Statistics reports that for the past 40 years the ratio of marriages to divorces has been nearly 2 to 1, only one president, Ronald Reagan, has been divorced. Just for the record, in 2005 there were 7.5 new marriages per 1,000, and 3.6 divorces per 1,000.    

The rest of the world has considered American divorce rates high as far back as the American Revolution. That's not surprising for a country that got its start through a divorce -- a political one from King George III. The founding fathers had a grievance list of the kind that would have shamed any vengeful spouse.

But long before the country gained its freedom, the first American couple divorced in a Puritan court in Massachusetts in 1639. In England, it took an Act of Parliament to get a divorce until 1857. Why was divorce available under the religiously restrictive Puritans and not in England? "Any country that abandoned Catholicism had to abandon marriage as a sacrament," said Rick Wunderli, a medieval history professor at the University of Colorado.

He's alluding to the Protestant Reformation of the 16th century, when many northern European countries --like England -- broke from the Catholic Church. "That meant that marriage became a civil affair," an affair of state, untied from Catholic doctrine, which prohibited divorce altogether at that time.

The Puritans became a center of that revolt by the following century. For them, "A contract was only valid as long as both parties agreed to it," Wunderli said. "If one party no longer agrees, the contract ends."

A bad marriage, the Puritans reasoned, was bad for the community -- perhaps the root of the American no-fault divorce. English poet and Puritan John Milton argued that a valid marriage contained true companionship. Since their goal was communal harmony, forcing two people who didn't love each other to stay together wasn't good, the Puritans reasoned. Thomas Jefferson, perhaps echoing Milton, used a similar argument when preparing documents in a divorce case four years before writing the Declaration of Independence.

He wrote that it was cruel "to chain a man to misery until death," that "liberty of divorce prevents and cures domestic quarrels," and that a marriage, like any other contract, was unenforceable without both parties agreement.

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