Getting divorced doesn't mean you and your soon-to-be ex have to fight like Mike Tyson. The more amicable your divorce, the better it will be for everyone, especially if children are involved. Here's how to make your divorce civil.
1. Be ready to grieve. Be prepared to process the divorce as a loss, much like a death. You'll probably experience shock, disbelief, denial, anger, guilt, depression and, finally, acceptance.
2. Take time to prepare. If you're initiating the divorce, give yourself time before asking for it to prepare for what's ahead.
3. Control your emotions. Try not to respond to your spouse's negative feelings. Those feelings, and a heated response from you, will only hurt your children and hamper the divorce process.
4. Get smart. Learn about your finances now and what they will be once you're divorced. Find a good lawyer by doing research and asking the right questions.
5. Remember that after the divorce you'll need time. You have to heal spiritually, financially and emotionally before you can move on.
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