PRIORITIZE AND ORGANIZE1. Set aside a Saturday this month to “Regroup.” I know — you’re busy. But If you combined the minutes, hours and sleepless nights you’ve spent in feeling anxious, you would more than justify a couple of hours on a Saturday to create a helpful timeline or calendar or post-it system, and to explore what stress-relief strategies will work best for you.
2. Prioritize. Streamline. Delegate. Discard: Is this really necessary today? Is there an easier way to get the job done? Who could help?
3. Remember: Not everything Important is Urgent. When we summon our in-house stress-response team unnecessarily, we mobilize bio-chemical reactions releasing cortisol and other coping substances that over time, take a toll on our wellness, impact relationships and quality of life.
JUGGLE AND BALANCE1. If diligent people are not careful, there can be a compulsive quality to “getting the job done." This can lead to system overload.
2. Commit yourself to a minimum of one non-essential pleasure every single day without exception. Walk, swim, dance, laugh, create. Stumped? Ask friends what they do for fun.
3. Practice Mindfulness: Meditation, breath-work, guided imagery, walking, writing, even rocking a baby, can produce a meditative state.Deep, mindful belly-breathing. oxygenates the body -- deep, blissful Belly-Laughing nourishes the rest. Fatigue, headache and irritability can also be signs of dehydration. Drink plenty of water to hydrate skin, flush toxins, aid digestion and circulation, and stay alert.
HARMONIZE AND HUMOR-IZE1. Shakespeare said, ‘How far that little candle throws his beams! So shines a good deed in a weary world.’ Do something kind for someone else single day. There is a cumulative, positive transformation that takes place when it becomes second nature to think about creating joy. And build in healthy rewards for all you do. (e.g. Buy two bunches of flowers. Keep one, give one away.)
2. On busy days, sometimes we forget to smile.
Smiling sends an internal All’s Well message: ‘I must be Okay - ’m smiling!’ Make a point of reading cartoons, seeing funny movies and finding laughter in everyday events.
3. Mental chatter and self-recriminations are distracting, distressing and demoralizing.
Never say to yourself anything you wouldn’t say to your dearest friend.
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