Let me tell you, I just found proof of my husband's affair with a mutual "friend" of ours. It has been going on for 2 years and she is married too. Save anything you find that proves the affair.I have printed emails from his girlfriend. I made copies and gave to a trusted friend for safekeeping in case the ones I have get misplaced. I confronted both of them as well as told her husband. My husband says he was going to end it but I say he is just saying that because he got caught. She said she was going to end it too but of course I don't belive her either. Now he says he is sorry and he will do anything to make it up to me. That is not gonna happen!!! Once a cheater always a cheater!! Forgiving him would just be giving him permission to do it again with someone else later (or even start up again with the same one). When you catch your spouse cheating, believe me, you marriage is O-V-E-R! You can never trust him again and you will be better off getting rid of him. Make sure you get a vicious lawyer and take him for everything he has!!!!! He deserves to suffer after what he put you through. Good luck and remember, don't back down!

Hey Vicious. I found out my spouse cheated on me too. I can tell you it is nothing to gain when you are a male and find out you spouse cheated on you money wise or custody wise